High heels are the perfect confidence builder. High heels make you instantly taller, your legs look leaner, high heels make almost any outfit look sexier, and they put your butt up on a pedestal where it belongs.  Some women may be intimidated by high heels and are afraid that trying to walk in a pair of heels might result in them tripping or falling over. With just a few basic pointers and a little bit of practice, any girl can strut around in her favorite mini skirt.

A few things to look for when picking out a great pair of high heels are fit, heel length and width, and straps and support.

1. A good heel length to start with is three inches. This is high enough to make your legs look long and sexy but low enough for a beginner to feel comfortable enough to walk with confidence.

2. The narrower the high heel the more balance that is required. If you are new to high heels try picking a shoe with a wider heel to start.

3. Try starting with a pump or a high heel shoe with an ankle strap. These high heel shoes will be more supportive for your ankles. Mary Jane style heels are another supportive style of high heel shoe that are cute and sexy.

4. The most important thing to keep in mind is to choose a high heel shoe that makes you feel sexy, whether it be Mary Jane’s, a classic pump, a wedge, stilettos, opened toe, or a shoe with ankle straps, choose what looks best on you.

Walking gracefully in high heels requires confidence. You can’t be looking down out at your feet in fear of a misstep. Hold your head high, strengthen your back, and look strait ahead at where you are going. Here are a few basic rules to remember when walking in high heels.

1. First just practice standing in your new high heels in front of a full length mirror. Turn slightly to each side and check out your new sexy profile. This is the time to monitor your posture, shoulders back, chest out, head held high, and spine strait. Your walk will be balanced once your posture is set.

2.  Go for a quick walk around the room in your high heels. Try walking on a firm surface first. Thick carpet can through you off balance.

3. When walking in high heels remember to keep your toes pointed out in front of you. Imagine there is a straight line set out in front of you, cross each foot over the line with each step, right over left, left over right.

4. Don’t put your whole foot down at once when walking in high heels, your not wearing comfy sneakers. First place down your heel and then your toe, heel to toe, not toe to heel. This will give you more stability when walking and help you to remember to balance your weight on your toes and not your heels.

5. Swing your arms as you walk in high heels to keep your balance and sway your hips into each step. You’ll look like a confident runway model and be stable and balanced.

6. Be sure to step precisely when walking on a staircase. Hold onto the rail and step firmly with your entire shoe. Both the heel and toe should land squarely with each step.

7. Practice, practice, practice! If you plan on dancing in your high heels, practice steping from side to side as well as turning slowly on your toe. With enough practice any length high heel shoe is possible. Just work your way up slowly from a three inch heel to a five inch heel. Who knows? Maybe you’ll gain enough confidence for a six, seven or even eight inch heel.

Remember to walk with confidence, imagine you are the Queen of the Nile or a sexy runway model. Keep a solid posture and hold your head high. Every girl should own a pair of fabulous high heel shoes. High heels are the perfect fashion must-have. A great pair of shoes adds a bit of sexiness and style to any outfit.

These boots aren’t made for walking or even standing for that matter. Ballet boots and heels are also known as ‘fuck me pumps’ because they are made for just that, fucking. These shoes are to be worn during an evening of fetish play. They have been popular for the past few decades in the underground fetish and BDSM scenes. The first Ballet boots were hand crafted in Europe as early as 1896. Ballet boots have a pointed toe like a ballet slipper but they have a seven or eight inch heel which matches the average length of the foot, which forces the wearer into the en pointe position of ballet, with the foot fully extended and the bulk of the weight concentrated in the toes.

Ballet Boots and shoes have found some recent mainstream fame in pop culture and music videos. A pair of white ballet boots can be seen on a red haired model in the White strips video “Blue Orchid”. This model actually stands up and ascends a flight of stairs. You can see when she stands or walks that she does so by bending her knees and standing in a kind of squat. All the cuts to her standing or walking in the shoes are very short which means she probably took a stand and stopped before they took the next shot. In Christina Aguilera video “Hurt”, she is seen wearing a gold pair of ballet shoes as she ascends from the top of a circus tent on a trapeze bar in full circus showgirl regalia. And probably the sexiest use of Ballet boots is in the Beyonce video “Green Light”. Beyonce and five other models stand while clearing holding onto a bar above them to keep their balance. Beyonce wearing a tight vinyl catsuit while the other model don skin tight vinyl mini dresses. Beyonce even gets down on her knees and crawls through the girls legs.

Most Ballet boots and heels can be found for between $40 and $300. They come in a variety of styles. There is the basic pump with a spike heel, sometimes made of steel and coming to a severe point. Some other styles of ballet heels are the mary jane or ankle strap. A lot of ballet heels lace up the front even some that have ankle straps. Ballet boots are also very popular. Ankle ballet boots come just below the bottom of the café and almost always lace up. Some even have pad lock closures for heightened submissive play. There are knee high ballet boots that lace up the front and many have zippers in the back. Thigh high ballet boots come to about the center of the thigh and can be lace up of made of skin tight vinyl for sleek lines to go with the rest of a vinyl outfit. Ballet boots can also come as a platform wedge instead of a heel. This style of boot allows for an even high point and offers more opportunity for domination.

Ballet boots and heels are not meant for walking. They are not meant to be worn out. They exist for erogenous appeal and are for living out wild fetish fantasies. Ballet boots should only be stood in for mere moments and walking in them is only for the truly brave. They are designed to be restrictive and keep you at the mercy of your partner who can now tease and tantalize you until your passions explode. Ballet boot can be the crowing jewel in any leather or vinyl fetish outfit. They can also been worn with lacy and satin corsets to bring to life a Victorian sex dream. Ballet boots and heels are a must have for anyone who wants to fulfill any submissive fantasies.